The sex-obsessed are, on the whole, psychopaths.

This was pretty clear to me from the start, though once I was exposed to more and more men who claimed to having been “successful” with women, connecting the dots was really easy.

How they view their wretched life and its vulgar choices is telling, too: for only psychopaths would see such a life as a “success”. Not to mention that their biographies are usually just the same boring repetition of earning money and living sexually promiscuous — and lots of traveling around, apparently.

Not that my life isn’t boring; I’m a loser, after all. However, these psychopaths usually elevate themselves as if they are some kind of important person or genius even. They being just as unimportant as the rest of us, of course.

There are dozens of articles linking sexual promiscuous behavior to psychopathy. For example: NARCISSISM AND PSYCHOPATHY EXPLAIN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN SOCIOSEXUALITY AND SEXUAL ASSAULT PERPETRATION:

[…] In fact, men with high trait psychopathy reported beginning to have sex at a younger age, marrying younger, being sexually promiscuous, being willing to leave ongoing relationships for new ones, and being unfaithful to their spouses (Jonason et al., 2010; Robins, 1966; Visser, Pozzebon, Bogaert, & Ashton, 2010). In community samples, psychopathy has been positively correlated with having a greater number of sexual partners (Jonason et al., 2009), a preference for short-term sexual relationships (Jonason et al., 2009), a greater number of “one night stands” (Seto et al., 1997), and a history of engaging in sex shortly after meeting (Seto et al., 1997). High trait psychopathy was negatively correlated with age of first intercourse (Seto et al., 1997).

Not that this comes as surprise. The question, rather, is: why does our society not only tolerate, but even encourage this?

Putting it into perspective with the help of Don Colacho:

We live because we do not view ourselves with the same eyes with which everybody else views us.

Humanity longs to free itself from poverty, from toil, from war—from everything which few escape without degrading themselves.

We spend a life trying to understand what a stranger understands at a glance: that we are just as insignificant as the rest.

Modern man’s life oscillates between two poles: business and sex.

Sexual promiscuity is the tip society pays in order to appease its slaves.

When the modern consciousness suspends its economic routines, it only oscillates between political anguish and sexual obsession.